Tuesday, 28 October 2008

4 weeks old, How Time Flies

How time flies!
He's pretty big now, our little one, he really looks around and has a definite preference for cuddles and jiggling up and down. He's an interactive baby now!


Here he is, looking towards the TV!

He has a different sort of schedule each day, so I can't say he has any real sort of routine yet - I try and watch what he wants and needs throughout the day, and guide his sleep, feeds and baths, and his alert-time so that he is not doing too much of any one thing at a time - he's only a baby after all, he has no way of understanding that if he feeds every half hour he'll only have a rough time digesting the milk! He also has no way of seeing how tired he is getting, and I have to remember to put him down for a nap in good time! More or less, he feeds every 2-4 hours. He tends to have a few feeds close together (2 hours apart) and a few quite far apart. Some feeds are l-o-n-g, and others are faster and shorter - I leave all that up to him unless we are in a hurry for some reason - in which case he gets a top up feed asap, or a bottle of expressed milk, which is SO the fastest way to feed him!

I'm testing out the Dr Browns anti colic bottle, and the Breastflow bottle (it's like a breast in terms of what baby has to do with his bottom lip to get the milk out of the special teat) - and Jaan seems to get on best with the Breastflow bottle. To be honest, Jaan loves the ordinary no-frills Mothercare bottle we had lying around (unopened hand-me-downs from his cousins!) - but they do leave him a little windy and he sucks way too fast!! It's amazing he does not spit up more than he does (hardly at all thank goodness).

... and we've been enjoying family time together in the mornings,
when we can. LOVE this picture.


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Wednesday, 22 October 2008

Jaan's 3rd Week


So Jaan spent this third week of his life chilling at home with Mummy & Daddy, getting into a normal routine - elevenses (sometimes a lot later than 11!!) with Aunty Paula at the coffee place on Angel Pavement, Lunchtimes with Daddy coming home, Jaan's Friends Baby Group on Thursdays, scream-fest every night at 10:30 pm .... till about midnight!, Trips to the Chiropracter ... he has a busy life, it's amazing how much sleep he manages to fit in.

Saturday, 18 October 2008

Baby Jaan Anna Banana


Well, the Radiographer seems to have over-reacted, according to the consultant Mr Williams.
Apparantly, Jaan just needs to be discussed in clinic on Tuesday and we'll take it from there. Williams has seen the scan, and is not freaking out. 

Hurrah! 

We can all just chill till we hear what to do next.

Meanwhile, Jaan is pretty happy, enjoying life and all it has to offer him. Here he is with his little pal, Anna Banana.

Wednesday, 15 October 2008

Update


Health -

Well, the Radiographer seems to think there is an obstruction at the place where Jaan's kidney reaches the bladder, but she can't see what - so I reckon we need another scan on a different machine with a different lady! More tests are in order, probably sooner than originally planned, as his kidney is still swollen - could be because he is growing, could be because of an obstruction - it's still too early to do anything more than monitor him closely. He is only 2 weeks old after all. Please do keep him in your thoughts and prayers. If all goes well, he will just be fine and keep growing strong and well. If he needs treatment, I hope we find out what and how he needs help soon. His doctors are capable people ... but the hospital system is very disorganised, and it does not seem to matter that he is 'in the system' - the system itself is slow and flawed, complete lack of communication, no one takes responsibility etc. Nothing new for me to see, but it is hardly comforting from a parents point of view when this is the best that is available anywhere ... 

We are staying positive, keeping Jaan's home life as happy and peaceful as possible - he is very happy and calm. Every week, when we go to hospital, he has a bad time, blood tests and ultrasounds etc, but then he comes home and life is good again. We are always with him at hospital, cuddling him and comforting him through his tests. It is hard, but he is as happy as can be, which is what counts. 

Activities -

Jaan sleeps and feeds a lot - we leave him to it otherwise! He is meant to sleep and sleep and grow while he sleeps, apparantly! I wish he could play more .... but he is so small!!! I know I have to let him be :) 

He has recently started crying a bit at night - can't settle himself, we've been feeding him too often in the evening and it has been hurting his digestion - OOPS!! Well, now we know! So back to 3 hourly feeds. That should help me too! He was getting very 'sucky' - needs his Dummy more. 

Iain is back at work, as of Monday, and has been coming home at lunchtime to see Jaan, and back home again at 5 pm. Lucky us! We only have to be apart between 8:00 and 12:00 and then 12:30 - 5:00. Not bad! Once Iain goes back to work after lunch, Jaan and I try and sleep in front of the TV, watching Deep Space 9 and Star Trek the Next Generation on Virgin 1. That is, if we are not out for some reason. Sometimes we have things to do! Jaan has a busy schedule. 

Tomorrow for example he has his hearing test, so we will go to that early in the morning, and then at 3 pm he has Baby Group to attend - some local ladies meeting up with their newborns, we met at our flat last week, and we're meeting at another ladies' tomorrow. We were expecting the Health Visitor too ... but will probably have to reschedule that visit as we don't want to miss seeing the babies! 


Tuesday, 7 October 2008

Jaan's First Weekend :( in hospital



Baby Jaan went in for his kidney scan on Friday, and ended up being admitted to the ward for observations - kidney infection, one kidney ... all sorts of dangers. Of course I had terrible pain to deal with still (in recovery with hardly any pain meds because of breastfeeding and because of my poor gut ...) so it was not fun!

We stayed in all weekend, took care of Jaan, fed him etc ... but managed to get some photos too as he developed so much in the few days. It was a scary time, but he is a joy to care for. A happy, peaceful, calm baby - gives us hope!

Sunday, 5 October 2008

Baby Jaan in Hospital


Well, as many of you know now, Jaan is not very well. He's in hospital under observation - no need to panic just yet!

I'll try and update the blog so Jaan's loved ones can keep abreast of his progress (I think I can do it by text or at least at the hospital on the console by my bed). We love him so much, and he is such a good, brave, wonderful baby - he is coping so well with all the tests and being in hospital.

The real tests and monitoring start today/Monday. Basically he has a few issues with his kidneys - it is too soon to tell if it is a serious issue needing lots of treatment, or if it is just something to keep an eye on just in case.

Of course we hope he is just fine, and hope to take him home again in a week or so, till ten, we are stuck in the PICU at Addenbrookes. Luckily that is just 5 munutes from my parents' house! SO we have a nice place to shower, eat, sleep - not that we leave the hospital much!

Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers - he needs everyone's good vibes!!

Please don't phone us though as we don't like to leave him to check voicemail, and we are not at home at all. Plus, phone calls mean we have to leave hospital to charge our phones! Please do text us, email us and Facebook us - we are so happy to have him, are so proud of him, and so in love with him, but it is also so hard to watch him in hospital, so hard to feed him, rest, take care of myself as well ...

The Good News is:

  • He is feeding beautifully - an excellent feeder. He is being breastfed exclusively.
  • He is very happy and content.
  • He wees and poos just fine - that is a very good sign.
  • He is in no pain.
  • He plays, looks around, watches us, 'reads' his shapes book - photos soon!

Much Love

Nadiya (and Iain)

Well, as many of you know now, Jaan is not very well. He's in hospital under observation - no need to panic just yet!

I'll try and update the blog so Jaan's loved ones can keep abreast of his progress (I think I can do it by text or at least at the hospital on the console by my bed). We love him so much, and he is such a good, brave, wonderful baby - he is coping so well with all the tests and being in hospital.

The real tests and monitoring start today/Monday. Basically he has a few issues with his kidneys - it is too soon to tell if it is a serious issue needing lots of treatment, or if it is just something to keep an eye on just in case.

Of course we hope he is just fine, and hope to take him home again in a week or so, till ten, we are stuck in the PICU at Addenbrookes. Luckily that is just 5 munutes from my parents' house! SO we have a nice place to shower, eat, sleep - not that we leave the hospital much!

Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers - he needs everyone's good vibes!!

Please don't phone us though as we don't like to leave him to check voicemail, and we are not at home at all. Plus, phone calls mean we have to leave hospital to charge our phones! Please do text us, email us and Facebook us - we are so happy to have him, are so proud of him, and so in love with him, but it is also so hard to watch him in hospital, so hard to feed him, rest, take care of myself as well ...

The Good News is:

  • He is feeding beautifully - an excellent feeder. He is being breastfed exclusively.
  • He is very happy and content.
  • He wees and poos just fine - that is a very good sign.
  • He is in no pain.
  • He plays, looks around, watches us, 'reads' his shapes book - photos soon!

Much Love

Nadiya (and Iain)

Friday, 3 October 2008

Jaan's first Shampoo!


Annabel the midwife couldn't stand it anymore and pointed out that Jaan needed his hair washed! LOL - we had no idea what to do, so she helped (well, she did it!).

Poor thing - never suspected what was about to happen! 


Then it hit him! 

All clean at the end though! [And days later he loved his first bath - in with Mummy in the big tub - on the 6th October, at about 7:30 pm, although he was still not keen on shampoo! His hair was grubby though so we had to ... and poor Daddy was not very sure how to wrap Baby Jaan up - wriggly baby!]

Hi there Friends & Family!


Hello Everyone

Welcome to Baby Jaan's blog.

He is well, and we'll just post photos for a while - we're a bit short on time! 

xx 

Proud Mummy




Meet Jaan - Born at 11:14 on Tuesday the 30th September, 2008, at the Rosie Hospital. He weighed 8 lbs 6 oz, and is a calm, happy baby, feeds well, looks grumpy most of the time, sleeps a lot for now! 

We love him and are all doing well - enjoying having him around! We just eat, sleep, and cuddle - all 3 of us! Iain is the chief nappy changer and baby-calmer, Nadiya feeds and soothes the baby, we take it in turns to sleep and when the baby sleeps, one of us sleeps too!